Saturday, January 11, 2020

Keeping Busy and Meeting New Friends

One of the most challenging aspects of my move has recently been keeping myself constructively busy and meeting people who are not work colleagues - as pleasant as they are .. just in case any of you are reading :)

Now, I'm perhaps a little more outgoing than some, but by no means am I a social magnet. During the past years, I've tried the usual of trying to make connections in cafés, bars, etc and also using the Internations expat community. But for me I find these less convenient for making connections with like minded people.

A few weeks back just prior to New Year I came across this app/ site that allows people to organise Meetup groups. It's available on both Android and iPhone and the website is meetup.com. There are multiple groups registered here in Copenhagen across many different interests and what I have found particularly useful is the fact that these groups are basically collections of like minded people joining and getting together.

As an example, I've joined a writing group, a sketching group, a cinema group a geek club :-) to name a few. So far all of the groups I've joined have been very social, friendly and the fact that you are interacting at an event or activity with people who have a similar interest just makes it so much easier to make that initial connection and start conversations.

For anyone coming to Copenhagen, especially in the less warmer months when going out and enjoying the city can be less than pleasant, I would highly recommend taking a look at the meetup groups available and taking part in some of the activities! Not only do you get to meet people, but perhaps also brush up on a skill you've not been able to catch up on for a while. In my case it has been writing and drawing. In fact the new impetus on this blog is partly due to the "Shut up and Write" group I have joined! 

Saturday, January 4, 2020

Three Years and Counting

It's been a while since I have managed to write. Many things have happened in my life since the last post and I'm looking at things with new eyes now. Looking at my life, myself and doing a lot of introspection.

In the process of  my introspection, and re-reading some of my older posts on living in Copenhagen, I have come to the realisation that I might have been overly critical whilst being in a depressive state.

So how do I find Copenhagen now after three years? Well, I am far happier than I have been here in a while. I am actually starting to enjoy my life in Copenhagen. I am exploring, I am experiencing and I am looking at everything with different eyes. This, I think is partly due to having tackled a long period of depression. Accepting, to an extent changes in my life situation and learning slowly what truly gives me pleasure in life.

Copenhagen, I find now, just like any other city, has it's annoyances and things I do not particularly care for. But these are really so small and insignificant that I would readily stay. Though I have not decided that just yet, I would say I am weighing more on the side of conceiving this as home. And why not.

One thing I did stop doing was converting everything to Euro's and comparing against the equivalent in the Netherlands. Once I did that and accepted the cost and the fact that we get paid to offset that cost, then I found a whole new appreciation for things I did. Be that dinner, drinks, Tivoli or going for a coffee. I think for anyone moving here that would be one of my foremost pieces of advice - do not compare the pricing to your home country!

I am really hoping that now with a new mindset and new ideas of exploration that this blog will finally take off like I had originally intended it to.

Hopefully it will not only provide information but also be a journal of my life and thoughts as I move into the next decade and next half century of my life. Yes, I turned 50 in late 2019 :-) 

My YouTube Channel is Cranking Up!

A couple of years back I started a YouTube channel under the guise of Nomad Nish (@NomadNish). But life happened and it got sidelined for a ...